Beauty is truly only skin deep, and at the end of the day, it's
pretty meaningless if we don't foster the more lasting parts of our
identity, like kindness and intelligence. However, sometimes we just
want to feel like we look our best, and for those occasions, there are
scientifically verified ways to appear more attractive.
As much as I firmly believe that way too much emphasis is placed on
physical attributes in our culture, and also think that the media
definitely creates unrealistic standards of beauty (I'm supposed to hold
down a full-time job and look like a Photoshopped celebrity who has a
personal chef and trainer? I don't think so), I also definitely feel
more confident when I'm happy about the way I look. It's an inescapable
part of being human, no matter how much we might be aware of our
culture's perverse fascination with looking "perfect."
That being said, there are definitely super simple ways that science
tells us we can look more aesthetically pleasing — which in turn will
hopefully give us that little added boost of confidence to help us take
on an important moment or event. Because at the end of the day, so much
about beauty products and fashion is really about how they makes us
feel, and not about what they're actually doing to us on the outside.
So in the spirit of feeling our most awesome, here are eight things you can do to look more attractive, backed by science.
1. Keep Your Teeth White
According to a study from the University of Leeds featured on
Business Insider, clean white teeth
are a quick indicator of good health and thus instantly make us more
attractive to others. So grab those whitening strips (or whatever method
works best for you and your life) and say hello to an awesome smile.
Try: AuraGlow Teeth Whitening Accelerator Light, $22.99, Amazon
2. Go For A Voluminous Hair Style
A piece in
Everyday Health noted that thick hair is associated
with health and vitality, which instantly makes you look better. If
your hair has been thinning with age or is just on the thinner side in
general, celebrity stylist Oribe recommended
using a dry shampoo on the roots to absorb heavy oils and create an instant illusion of fullness.
Try: Oribe Dry Texturizing Spray, $44, Amazon
3. Take Care Of Your Skin
Neutrogena Healthy Skin Boosters Facial Cleanser, $7.49, Amazon
A study published by the NIH showed that
smooth skin is a major factor in overall attractiveness
since, much like white teeth, it instantly indicates good health. So if
you want that added boost of confidence, start giving your skin a
little TLC. And since I'm a skincare junkie, I can't help but recommend a
gentle chemical exfoliate followed by a quality (scent-free)
moisturizer. It's a simple and cost-effective method for glowing skin.
Also, never forget the sunscreen — seriously.
4. Have Red Lipstick Handy
The same
Business Insider piece noted that a University of
Manchester study found that our lips are considered to be one of our
most attractive and arousing facial features. It also found that
drawing attention to them with red lipstick
means they will be stared at for an average of seven seconds longer. So
if you're looking to feel your sexiest, go with the red!
Try: Lime Crime Velvetine Lipstick in Red Velvet, $20, Amazon
5. And Put On That Red Dress
If you like red lipstick, you should also consider that red dress in
your closet. In a study out of the University of Rochester, participants
rated people as more attractive
when they're in red over other colors — even when shown pictures of the
same person.
Try: BCBGMax Azria Bennett One-Shoulder Cocktail Dress, $268, Amazon
6. Mimic
That's right — a study featured in the
Social Psychology Bulletin simply subtly mimicking
the person we're talking to can increase your attractiveness. So the
next time you're in conversation with someone you're really into, be
sure to pay attention to their body language and respond with a similar
gesture or posture.
Subtle mimicry indicates attraction.
Try: The Language of Love - Powerful Body Language to Attract the Opposite Sex, $9.99, Amazon
7. Accentuate Your Symmetry
You've likely heard that facial symmetry is strongly associated with attractiveness, and a
study out of Stanford confirms
this. However, the fact of the matter is most of us aren't perfectly
symmetrical. Our eyes might be two slightly different sizes, our mouth
may be a little lopsided, our nose could be a little uneven. It's
natural and normal, and is generally not something to stress about
at all.
However, if you want that extra boost of confidence, the good news is
that makeup is kind of a miracle when it comes to creating the illusion
of symmetry. You can soften a hooded eye, shadow the nose, or slightly
reshape a lip — it's all about knowing how. Check out the above Pixiewoo
video to see how you can make your eye bigger or smaller to see how
it's done.
8. Be Confident
This is something I've written about before as well. Confidence can
instantly make you a more magnetic person. According to Harvard
psychologist Craig Malkin, it's because confident people are more likely
to engage in
behavior that inspires trust
in other people, like solid eye contact and open body language, as well
as are more likely to be open and say what they mean. So even if you're
naturally on the shyer side, try to fake it 'til you make it on those
nights when you want to feel super cute.
We're all our own worst critic when it comes to the way we look,
which is why some quick, scientifically-proven ways to look better can
be just the thing to help melt away our insecurities. So throw on that
red dress, pump up your hair, and remember that you look awesome.
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